What’s your quiver? We come into a world moseying into a life that awaits us with a myriad of happiness and sadness as well – those of us fortunate to have a childhood of elation and glee see an abundance of sprightliness that those memories bring. We come into life not
We learn as we grow and certainly the saying “older and wiser” rings true. As we leave the elation of childhood and youth we emerge to other joys, the way it falls in line with life – we establish love and being loved but yet we can mosey on in life for decades and never find true happiness, not only in ‘heart’ love but in making love. As we grow that happiness is on a different level – we find love, we make love, however that is different for everybody and when people of the same effective coital intimacy get together it can be the epitome of happy.
Get ready for hard and fast and real truth!
An ABCNews.com report states that is important that deep conversation needs to happen, but guess what – it doesn’t. People, usually women, a high percentage, go through life without experiencing the ultimate happiness of a climax – a travesty!
“We need to talk about sex and communicate, not just what it is but what feels good” Susie Bright, a feminist and sex columnist told ABCNews.com. “It would be helpful if women knew as much about their ‘clits’ as men do about their penises.”
In my view, and what I learned from women is, we need to speak up because we have sex without ultimate happiness of reaching an orgasm. And in practicality and empathy the males should ensure the females have orgasms then have their turn as they are far more easier to achieve it, but by a far stretch, that is not the norm. Women go through life with a silence of the lack of ecstatic happiness, therefore missing out on a feeling of – ecstasy!
Women were more likely to reach orgasm in experiencing more practices, especially cunnilingus [journal of sex research], as the clitoris is the ‘organ’, not vaginas – mere biology.
Don’t despair, happiness is to be ‘had’ – take heed men and women.
Make happiness happen – let’s talk, let’s act!